How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend to Contact You
No contact rule? Not always...
There are times when the well-known No Contact rule at the end of a relationship is the wrong thing to do if you want to reconcile. There are no clear cut ways to get your ex girlfriend to contact you, but there are things that can be done to ensure that you still have contact with each other in general.
If you had a relationship that involved other people that are mutual friends of you both this can work to your advantage. Talking to them openly and honestly about what has happened may enlighten them on the opinion they have on the situation. They may side with you and think that reconciliation would be the best thing for the two of you. If this is the case then there are many ways that can be arranged for the two of you to be in the same general vicinity of one another. Once in the same common area there is more likelihood of communication between you.
Do not come across too aggressively if you are in contact with her. This will only push her further away if she is still upset with the situation. Come across as the kind and caring person that attracted her in the beginning of the relationship you had. This will help her to recall fond memories that you shared as a couple. Not only will it remind her but it will also remind you of the things that you may need to do to change things and make the new relationship far better.
Be sincere with the things that you say to her and others. Genuine sincerity will never hurt anyone and people are drawn to honest and sincere people. There is the chance that the relationship may not be recoverable but without trying one will never know this for sure.
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If you had a relationship that involved other people that are mutual friends of you both this can work to your advantage. Talking to them openly and honestly about what has happened may enlighten them on the opinion they have on the situation. They may side with you and think that reconciliation would be the best thing for the two of you. If this is the case then there are many ways that can be arranged for the two of you to be in the same general vicinity of one another. Once in the same common area there is more likelihood of communication between you.
Do not come across too aggressively if you are in contact with her. This will only push her further away if she is still upset with the situation. Come across as the kind and caring person that attracted her in the beginning of the relationship you had. This will help her to recall fond memories that you shared as a couple. Not only will it remind her but it will also remind you of the things that you may need to do to change things and make the new relationship far better.
Be sincere with the things that you say to her and others. Genuine sincerity will never hurt anyone and people are drawn to honest and sincere people. There is the chance that the relationship may not be recoverable but without trying one will never know this for sure.
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